INFJ’s when we even get to the point of some small amount of knowledge of ourselves, it ends up leading to just more questions. It’s almost like opening up one door, to discover on the other side, three other doors appear. The common sticking point is that we look outside ourselves (Fe) to try and… Continue reading INFJ – When it comes to knowing ourselves, we fail miserably.
The most important lesson I have learned, is to “do what you want”, in life , using your intuition as your guide, and look inwards for life’s answers. Honestly, I’m now forty, and it took me this long to figure this out. I have come to realize limiting beliefs, fears, and anxieties are mostly fictitious.… Continue reading To the INFJs out there “Do what you want”
The present has weight, it has more substance than the past or future. Its tangible value holds unforeseen promise that if used right can affect the change that you yearn for, but you have to get started, and most importantly you have to want to change. Without the deep desire to changed, you can stay… Continue reading No better time than the present
Since focusing on the “present” during meditation, I believe I have come to an impasse. Not only have I been focusing more on the present, I have been experiencing more of the present. For the majority of my adult life, I have been preoccupied with anticipating what might happen in the future. I also get… Continue reading INFJ struggles with living in the present
I was just thinking about what I like about my current job as support engineer, and what I do not like. What draws me to this type of work and what pressure points do I see in it. I have observed others in my work group enjoy digging into a problem, while I have trouble… Continue reading Searching for the right career, when you are an INFJ
When you satisfy your own internal hunger for self acceptance, you gain a new healthier perspective on life. People seem kinder to you, opportunities seem to open up for you, you smile more, and you are more aware of others feelings, and emotions. The biggest take away is, the world did not change…….you changed. … Continue reading Quench your hunger for self acceptance, by using gratitude as a tool to open your mind, and heart.
This time last year I would probably be asleep at this early morning hour because I drank copious amounts of alcohol the night before. When I would wake up, hungover, I would wander outside onto the patio deck to have a cigarette. I believe my history of self hate and self harm has to do… Continue reading Self love